6 Signs That She Likes You
Want to know if that woman you have your eye on likes you too? Of course there is the obvious way of finding out what she thinks - you could ask her, but if you would rather approach her after you think she likes you then look for the following 6 signs.
1. A Shift in Attitude When You Are Around
You don't want to spy on her, because if you get caught spying you will ruin your chances with her, but you do want to see if you can observe her when she doesn't think you are around. Then compare that to the way she acts when you ARE around. If there is a change in behavior when you are in the room then you know that she feels differently towards you than her friends or acquaintances. This is probably the biggest sign she will give you.
For instance, if she acts silly when she's around her friends, co-workers, or even strangers but is straight as an arrow when you are around, then she is trying to be someone different when you are around, and this signifies some sort of feelings towards you. If she's not shooting you dirty looks then it's probably a good sign that she likes you.
2. A Shift in Body Language When You Are Around
This is essentially the same thing as above, but she doesn't have to display a different behaviour all together when you are around. You are looking for a clumsier, less natural, and more awkward woman than you normally see.
Basically you want to watch for body language that is at one end of the spectrum or the other. She may sit too stiff around you or too relaxed. She may walk really slow or really fast. She may do too many hand gestures or her hands may be held tightly down. The point is she is nervous around you and this causes her body language to shift into a more unnatural state.
3. She Fixes Her Hair, Clothes, Hat - Everything!
If she is constantly fixing her hair or adjusting her clothes when you are around then you can be sure she is focusing on her appearance, and that focus normally comes from thinking about what others think. I mean she doesn't fix her hair or clothes around her friends or strangers as much as she does around a guy she likes! So watch for grooming from her as a sure sign that she likes you.
4. You See More of Her Than You Used Too
It doesn't matter whether you work with her, go to school with her, or hang out with mutual friends of hers - you will see more of her if she likes you. She will make sure of that!
When I first became interested in my husband I would time my lunch to coincide with his break, just so I could be in his line of vision. I would also purposely walk past places I knew he would be at work, even though I had no reason to be there. And I tried to arrange more get together's with our mutual friends. I was a woman who was trying to get his attention, and it worked.
5. She Licks Her Lips or Tilts Her Head
These are just a couple of body language signals that a woman will send out if she likes you, but they are the most popular signals.
Doing things to her lips is an attempt to get you to notice her lips, which are supposed to be a feminine trait that attracts men. So she will bite, lick, or touch her lips while you are talking to her or looking her way.
Tilting her head is an instinctual body movement that women do when they like a guy. It's a way to show vulnerability which is an extremely attractive quality in a woman, at least instinctually.
6. She Smiles at You Often
If you always see her smiling at you when you look her way then that is a huge sign that she likes you. She wants you to feel comfortable and welcome with her and what better way to do that then with a smile?
This is also a huge sign that she's giving you to approach her. She's letting you know that she see's you and that she likes you, and it's okay to come and talk to her. Many women will not let you know that they notice you if they feel fear of rejection or are not sure if they really like you. So a direct smile can say it all!